Why does the derriere hold such avid appeal? Why do we compare it to peaches, bubbles, and bookshelves? Why do some of us wish to worship it in less than hygienic ways? If you’re a lover of ass, the why doesn’t matter.
“Don’t quit your day job” is a catch-all when it comes to BDSM, not because a nice girl can’t have the chops or beat down a 250-pound man. Most folks getting into kink want passion, excitement, and a break from boring. It’s quite the mindf**k when a sweet-looking girl turns out to be methodically dirty, sadistic, and cruel.
The desire to be humiliated is pretty common. A boy or young man may think he is the only one who feels this way. It is a natural response to develop a humiliation fantasy as a coping mechanism. Bigger is better? Nope. Sometimes bigger is just bigger.
Here are some roleplay rules to keep you on the path of playful enlightenment. For most, talking about their sexual fantasies elicits the same anxiety as public speaking or dreaming of going to school in underpants. Your place in the scope of time and space is a precarious thing. So why not have fun with it?
Who says #feminism means skipping sex appeal, dance rituals, and shirking the role of sex slave? Detangling a woman’s need to play slave girl means we get to have it all, but it’s getting harder to fit it all in!
What happens when you take a committed couple and throw them into the play pit with a BDSM provider? Hopefully good things! Just in case, here are some guidelines on how to pick a provider to match your fantasy, plus tips to ward off unnecessary drama.
When all we really want to do is live long and prosper, the quest for supremacy, security, purpose, and pain-avoidance continues undefiled. Yet there stands a shadowy figure, ready to defeat the evil forces of boredom, compliance, and indifference. This is how COSPLAY gives us power to defeat the DARK SIDE.
It’s sleepy, limp, rag doll time ! Our letter writer likes the idea of his lover semi-conscious and eagerly awaiting his advances… even if she can’t reciprocate. Is this okay???
This one is all about the Ass. Sitting, to be exact. Instead of focusing on the a**holes stirring their bubbling cauldron of media poop, we hear from a guy who can’t stop fantasizing about his co-workers bottom, and discuss how he can get his head out of the sand.
One potato, two potato, three potato, more… men? That’s enough for a side dish, but what about the main course? In this letter, we hear from a gal who has two tasty men, but she doesn’t know whether to call it quits or keep adding to her plate.