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So You Want to Be a Dominatrix

“Don’t quit your day job” is a catch-all when it comes to BDSM, not because a nice girl can’t have the chops or beat down a 250-pound man. Most folks getting into kink want passion, excitement, and a break from boring. It’s quite the mindf**k when a sweet-looking girl turns out to be methodically dirty, sadistic, and cruel.

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The Rules of Roleplay

Here are some roleplay rules to keep you on the path of playful enlightenment. For most, talking about their sexual fantasies elicits the same anxiety as public speaking or dreaming of going to school in underpants. Your place in the scope of time and space is a precarious thing. So why not have fun with it?

The Hero vs. The Villain

When all we really want to do is live long and prosper, the quest for supremacy, security, purpose, and pain-avoidance continues undefiled. Yet there stands a shadowy figure, ready to defeat the evil forces of boredom, compliance, and indifference. This is how COSPLAY gives us power to defeat the DARK SIDE.

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The Gentle Art of Facesitting

This one is all about the Ass. Sitting, to be exact. Instead of focusing on the a**holes stirring their bubbling cauldron of media poop, we hear from a guy who can’t stop fantasizing about his co-workers bottom, and discuss how he can get his head out of the sand.

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